Embracing the Suck

 I'm in the process of setting up the infrastructure of my life coaching business, working a full time day-job as an in-home caregiver (also known as direct support professional).  I prefer the term "Groom of the Stool" You can look that one up.  But, I'm also having to renew my driver's license. Add on top of that, I have laundry, dishes housework, cats, and a million other little things that need to be done in a day. When I look at all the things that are needful in my life, it can get overwhelming.  

I'm not sure where I first heard the phrase "embrace the suck", but it has turned out to be pretty elemental in my journey.  This doesn't mean that I get to whine and moan about my awful life.  I do, whine and moan about my life, human nature does apply to me, but that I can and should embrace the experience, find the humor and the lesson, and somehow, be grateful that these are the kinds of problems I have.  I'm reasonably healthy, while I'm not wealthy, I can afford all necessities, and one or two small luxuries.  I have family and friends who are dear to me. I have a loving church and a wildly divers, and fun online community.  

We get to choose our attitudes in the midst of trials, troubles, and tribulations.  I choose to embrace the suck

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